Last year, Alsou divorced her husband, Yan Abramov, after 18 years of marriage. The reason for the separation was her husband’s numerous infidelities. After ending the relationship, the artist returned to music, began going out and traveling more often, took up biathlon, and even got a tattoo. The changes in her life have been good for her.
Alsu shared her thoughts on infidelity in her blog. According to the singer, even if the feelings have passed, a true man will never betray, but will simply “honestly leave.” Society, according to her, has mixed attitudes toward male infidelity. Some justify the traitor, citing male nature, while others believe that cheating is a sign of a person’s immaturity and unreadiness for a serious and mature relationship.
Some recommend not breaking up a relationship because of infidelity, but accepting it and being patient.
Honestly? This doesn’t seem like wisdom to me, but rather a convenient concept for men who find it convenient to have both a “front” and a “rear” without losing anything. Where’s the woman in all of this? Her feelings, her boundaries, her dignity? — Alsou asked in her blog.
She noted that the habit of cheating cannot be justified by nature. Unlike animals, according to the singer, humans have intelligence, the ability to analyze and make choices.
Loyalty is a choice and a decision not to follow instinct. And I know for sure: when you respect yourself and the other person, you don’t build a double life. And if love is gone, you can leave honestly. Without pain, without betrayal, without secret games. For me, this is about maturity. About respect. About the truth. Because I want to be in a relationship where there is purity. Where there is trust, she noted.
The singer admitted that she wants to be in a relationship where purity and trust prevail, she dreams of getting married again. Now she has many admirers, but she still hasn’t made a choice.
I go on dates, but for now my heart is free. So draw your own conclusions, the artist noted.
